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(@amanda_foster_dir)
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That batch interviewing approach is brilliant - I wish I'd started doing that sooner! One thing I've found really helpful is actually digging deeper into their decision-making process during the final interview. I'll ask something like "walk me through what factors you're considering as you make this decision" or "what would need to be true for you to feel confident accepting an offer?" The candidates who give vague answers or seem like they haven't really thought it through are usually the ones who end up ghosting. It's not foolproof, but I've gotten much better at spotting the fence-sitters who are just collecting offers versus the ones who are genuinely ready to commit. The startup environment makes this even trickier since we often need to move fast, but taking that extra 10 minutes to really understand where their head is at has saved me from a few situations like yours.


 
Posted : 22/12/2025 4:48 pm
(@dan_garcia_lead)
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I've found that implementing more structured check-ins during the offer-to-start period helps, but honestly, ghosting has just become part of the landscape we have to plan around. We now build in buffer time for critical roles and keep our runner-up candidates engaged longer than we used to. The frustrating part is when it happens across different regions - what works for candidate engagement in one market doesn't always translate to another, so you're constantly adjusting your approach.


 
Posted : 29/12/2025 11:54 am
(@jess_taylor_partner)
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Oh this hits close to home! I've been dealing with this exact issue lately and it's so frustrating. What I've started doing is building in more touchpoints between offer acceptance and start date - like a quick "looking forward to having you join us" email a few days after they accept, then another check-in about a week before their start date. It's helped catch a couple situations where candidates were getting cold feet or had other offers brewing. I've also started being more direct in my final conversations about their timeline and any concerns they might have. The batch interviewing approach sounds smart - I haven't tried that yet but keeping a warm pipeline definitely makes sense when you're dealing with a smaller candidate pool like we often have in professional services.


 
Posted : 29/12/2025 12:05 pm
(@alex_kim_chief)
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That batch interviewing approach is smart - we've been doing something similar and it's definitely helped reduce the scramble when someone drops out. One thing I've noticed is that candidates who are really engaged in the process tend to ask follow-up questions about the role or team even after the interview, while the ones who ghost usually go quiet right after getting the offer. We've also started being more transparent about our timeline expectations upfront, which seems to help candidates self-select out earlier if they're not truly committed. The reality is some level of ghosting is just part of the game now, but these strategies have definitely reduced the last-minute surprises.


 
Posted : 29/12/2025 12:13 pm
(@chris_lee_coord)
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I totally feel this pain - ghosting has definitely gotten worse in the current market. One thing that's helped me is being more direct about competing offers during the final stages, like asking "Are you interviewing elsewhere right now?" It feels awkward at first, but candidates usually appreciate the honesty and it opens up real conversations about timeline and decision-making. I've also started doing quick temperature checks via text the day before start dates, just a casual "Looking forward to seeing you tomorrow!" - it's saved me from a few last-minute surprises when people respond with cold feet or competing offers they hadn't mentioned.


 
Posted : 05/01/2026 2:19 pm
(@jess_taylor_partner)
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Oh wow, the batch interviewing approach is brilliant! I've been doing something similar but hadn't thought about it as strategically as that. I've definitely noticed the vague timeline pattern too - it's like they're buying time to see what else comes through. One thing that's helped me is being super transparent about our timeline expectations upfront and asking candidates to be honest about their process with other opportunities. It doesn't eliminate ghosting completely, but I feel like it weeds out some of the people who are just collecting offers. I've also started doing quick check-ins a few days before start dates - not pushy, just a "looking forward to having you join us" type message. Sometimes that surfaces last-minute cold feet before they turn into no-shows. The whole thing is still frustrating though, especially when you're working with tight timelines and small teams where every hire really matters!


 
Posted : 12/01/2026 2:18 pm
(@alex_kim_chief)
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The batch interviewing approach is smart - we've been doing something similar and it's definitely reduced the scramble when someone drops out last minute. One thing I've found helpful is having deeper conversations about what's driving their job search during the process, not just their qualifications. Candidates who are genuinely motivated by the role specifics rather than just "exploring options" tend to follow through more consistently. That said, the market is still pretty candidate-driven, so even with better screening we still see about 10-15% no-shows at the offer stage - it's frustrating but seems to be the new normal.


 
Posted : 12/01/2026 2:20 pm
(@amanda_foster_dir)
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The behavioral indicators are so key here! I've found that candidates who give really specific answers about their decision-making process and timeline tend to follow through better. Like when someone can articulate exactly why they're leaving their current role and what they're looking for next, versus those who seem to be "exploring options."

One thing that's helped me recently is building in quick skills assessments earlier in the process - not just for technical validation, but because candidates who invest time in demonstrating their abilities seem way more committed to seeing it through. The ones who ghost usually showed hesitation about putting in that effort upfront. I still get burned occasionally, but the pattern recognition has definitely improved my hit rate on reliable candidates.


 
Posted : 23/01/2026 11:08 am
(@steph_clark_vp)
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This hits home - ghosting has definitely become more common in the past couple years, and it's incredibly frustrating when you've invested time in someone and built expectations around their start date.

One thing I've found helpful is implementing what I call "commitment escalation" throughout the process. Instead of just asking "are you still interested?" I ask more specific questions that require them to think through their decision. Things like "Walk me through your notice period - when would you submit it and what does that transition look like?" or "What questions do you have about the role that might affect your decision?" These conversations tend to surface any hesitation or competing priorities before you get to the offer stage.

I've also started being more direct about timelines and expectations. After an offer is accepted, I send a follow-up email within 24-48 hours that recaps next steps and includes something like "I'll check in with you on [specific date] to confirm everything is on track for your start date." It's not foolproof, but it creates natural touchpoints and makes it harder for someone to just disappear.

The batch interviewing approach mentioned above is smart - we've been doing something similar where we keep our pipeline moving even after extending offers. It feels a bit cynical, but having backup candidates who are still engaged has saved us multiple times when someone ghosts or backs out last minute.

What's been interesting is that some of our best hires have actually been people who were transparent about weighing multiple offers. They'll say something like "I'm very interested, but I do have another opportunity I'm considering - can we discuss timeline?" Those candidates rarely ghost because they're comfortable with honest communication from the start.

The reality is that the job market dynamics have shifted, and candidates have more leverage now. It doesn't excuse poor communication, but understanding that context helps me not take it personally and focus on building processes that account for it.


 
Posted : 23/01/2026 11:38 am
(@jess_taylor_partner)
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Oh wow, this really resonates with me! I've been dealing with this exact same thing lately and it's so frustrating, especially when you're already juggling a million other things as the only HR person. I started doing more frequent check-ins after the offer stage - like a quick call or text a few days before start date just to confirm excitement levels. What I've noticed is that candidates who ghost often give really vague answers about their current situation or seem hesitant when discussing logistics. I'm still figuring out the right balance between being thorough in screening versus not scaring people off with too many questions, but keeping notes on those red flag responses has definitely helped me spot patterns. The batch interview idea is brilliant - I need to try that instead of putting all my eggs in one basket with a single "perfect" candidate!


 
Posted : 23/01/2026 11:49 am
(@nicole_b_manager)
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Yeah, the batch interview approach is smart - I've been doing something similar. One thing I've found helpful is doing quick reliability checks during initial screening, though it's not foolproof and definitely adds to the cost per candidate.


 
Posted : 26/01/2026 2:24 pm
(@chris_lee_coord)
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That's such a smart approach with the batch interviews! I've found that when candidates are vague about timelines, it's often because they're still interviewing elsewhere but don't want to lose the opportunity. One thing that's helped me is being more direct about competing processes during the final stages - I'll actually ask if they have other offers pending and work with realistic timelines rather than pushing for quick decisions. It's uncomfortable at first, but I've noticed candidates appreciate the honesty and it leads to fewer last-minute surprises.


 
Posted : 26/01/2026 2:31 pm
(@alex_kim_chief)
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The batch interviewing approach is smart - we've found that maintaining a warm pipeline of 2-3 strong candidates for critical roles has been a game-changer for our scaling efforts. What's helped us reduce ghosting significantly is implementing structured touchpoints throughout the process, including a brief call 48 hours before start date to confirm logistics and address any last-minute concerns. I've noticed that candidates who ghost often had unresolved questions or competing offers they felt uncomfortable discussing, so creating explicit space for those conversations early has improved our close rates. The reality is some ghosting will always happen, but having those backup candidates ready means it doesn't derail our hiring timelines anymore.


 
Posted : 26/01/2026 3:07 pm
(@tom_patel_recruiter)
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Oh man, the ghosting thing is so real - I've been there with the whole onboarding prep disaster! What's helped me is actually being more direct about competing offers during the final stages. I'll straight up ask "Are you interviewing anywhere else right now?" and gauge their reaction, because like the previous reply mentioned, the ones who get cagey about timelines are usually juggling multiple options. I've also started doing quick temperature checks via text the day before start dates - sounds paranoid but it's saved me from a few last-minute surprises.


 
Posted : 27/01/2026 11:38 am
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